We have all heard about or seen the post about: Queens fixing another Queen’s crown without telling the world it was crooked. We all claim to be that type of person but in reality that is far from the truth. There are a few who are genuinely like this. I’ve met them so I know they exist. The sad part of this is in our LEOW community not many exists. Our small community where supporting each other is vital you don’t get to see this on full display. News flash the top is big enough for everyone. The stage is wide enough for all to fit.
No, I wasn’t hurt by another wife, I’ve been blessed enough to be surrounded by some great ladies. Ladies that want to see me win and I’m rooting for them the same way. Jealousy exists everywhere, I recognize that but it should not be this way. I remember reaching out to an author whose book I wanted to use in my Bible Study. I wanted to know if she would be willing to talk to my group at some point during the study. She said yes and kept her word. I was fully bracing for her to ignore me. Reading her books have been truly life changing for me. She has inspired me to be bold about who I am as a LEOW and a Christian in the Law Enforcement community. She inspired me to take my place to be or inspire a necessary change. One who will show others how to fix another Queen’s crown without telling the world it was crooked. We all saw how that turned for Ham, Noah’s son in Genesis 9. I shared a desire with her I believed the Lord put on my heart. She has been one of my biggest cheerleaders. When I read her books and I talk to her, I see the same person.
I have a heart for seeing other women win in life. I love being the biggest cheerleader for others. We all know that society in general is against Law Enforcement. There is no need for us to put each other down or compete against each other. I love using the term Blue Line Sorority Sisters, they support each other, root for each other and lift each other up. There shouldn’t be an us vs them. Political views shouldn’t divide us, our spouse’s position shouldn’t alienate us, our personal decisions shouldn’t disqualify us from the club. We truly should always be ready to help another wife whenever the needs arise without a motive.
l Kerry-Ann l